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Sex Positive Party: The Schwelle Festival 2026
A Festival for Consciousness, Love and Healthy Sexuality A sex positive party like the Schwelle Festival combines sensual experience, personal growth and conscious encounter in a way that goes far beyond traditional parties. From October 13–18, 2026, the renowned...
Poppers: Effects, Risks & Legality
Poppers have been part of the club, party, and sex scene for decades. Some swear by them, others are curious – and many wonder: Is it legal? What does it do? And does it work differently for men and women? Here is your complete, honest overview: easy to understand,...
From spanking bench to St. Andrew’s Cross: The world of BDSM furniture explained
If you’ve ever stepped into an erotic playground that felt more like an adventure than a bedroom, then you know the magic of BDSM furniture. Hardly any part of the kinky world is as versatile, sensual, and surprising as the pieces of furniture that bring together...
BDSM Toys – How to Take Your Kinky Play to the Next Level
BDSM Toys – Meaning, Types & How to Take Your Kinky Play to the Next Level BDSM toys are no longer a niche topic. Today, they're just as much a part of many couples' erotic toolkit as lube and condoms. The difference? BDSM toys open doors to a world full of...
Checklist: Are you ready for an open relationship?
For many, having an open relationship sounds like freedom, adventure, and lived honesty. But before opening this door, it's worth taking an honest look inward – and at each other. Because openness doesn't automatically mean ease. It requires courage, trust, and the...
Open Relationship – About Freedom and Trust
More and more couples are interested in alternative relationship models. Traditional monogamy is losing its status as the default – instead, many are looking for new ways to experience love, sexuality, and intimacy. One model that is increasingly coming into focus is...
Fetish – between pleasure, curiosity, and taboo
What is a fetish? The word fetish originally described an object with special meaning – something that triggers adoration, desire, or fascination. In modern sexuality, the term stands for a sexual preference directed toward specific materials, body parts, situations,...
Why Single Women Are Unicorns in the Swinging Scene
The Unicorn Phenomenon In the swinging world and on platforms like Joyclub, she is a myth – the single woman, the so-called unicorn. Rare, sought-after, and often misunderstood at the same time. While hundreds of couples and men are searching for her, she usually...
Tantra Massage – when touch becomes an experience
Tantra Massage – for many, it sounds like incense, spirituality, or mysterious rituals. But those who truly engage with it quickly realize: it's about much more than just an erotic massage. Tantra is an invitation to experience one's own body, one's own desire, and...
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Kinky outfit tips for men by Alex
Recommendations for kinky outfits for men Kinky outfits for men – this term carries more weight than many think. While women in swinger clubs and at sex-positive parties can often get away with almost any sexy piece of clothing, the rules for men in the scene are...
Kinky outfit tips for women by Leona
Leona's outfit recommendations with Amazon links A kinky outfit for women is far more than just a piece of clothing – it's an expression of your personality, your fantasy, and your desire for something new. Wearing such an outfit signals confidence and a sense of...
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BDSM, Fetish, Swing – Interview with Tylor Pup
BDSM, fetish, swing, and real emotions – when someone speaks openly about their experiences in the scene, it's allowed to be honest: raw, direct, and from the heart. In this interview, a young man tells us how he experienced Swing Baby, how he immersed himself in the...
Ballbusting: Meaning, Practice & Dynamics of the BDSM Fetish
Ballbusting – often also called "BB," "ball-play," or "testicle domination" – is a specific BDSM fetish where the focus is on targeted pain play in the testicles and genital area. While outsiders often react with confusion, ballbusting is a well-known and clearly...
Dominatrix Training: Behind the Scenes with Contessa Juliette
Dominatrix training has gained significant attention in recent years – not only within the BDSM scene but also in the areas of conscious sexuality, personal development, and professional bodywork. But what does it really mean to be a Domina or a Dominus? And what does...
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